Создаем семейные традиции

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Молодые пары покидают родительские дома, снимая отдельную квартиру или обзаводясь личным жильем; строят карьеру, вертясь как белка в колесе; наконец, рожают детей и вдруг в какой-то момент осознают, что традиции их семей утрачены. Что-то не прижилось, что-то невозможно перенести в новую семью, с чем-то не согласен любимый человек. Но это не значит, что от традиций надо отказываться. Надо их восполнять, формировать, пока не стало поздно, ведь семейные традиции – это повод к еще большему сплочению внутри вашего дома, это создание атмосферы теплоты, доверия и стабильности, которые в первую очередь нужны вашему малышу.

Не бойтесь создавать

Все мы знаем из словарей, что традиции – это то, что создается годами и проверяется поколениями. Но это вовсе не значит, что автором какого-то особого уклада семьи не можете стать вы сами. Самое главное, чтобы те традиции, которые вы хотите привнести в ваш дом, с радостью разделили бы все домашние, чтобы традиция не стала «обязаловкой» и не была встроена в семью искусственно, ведь ребенок очень хорошо чувствует фальшь.

Зачем это нам нужно?

Традиция в первую очередь подразумевает регулярность действия, а ничто как регулярность не дает чувство спокойствия и уверенности вашему ребенку, тем более в нашем шатком мире, когда дерганые родители переживают за все сразу, а зачастую и за саму целостность семьи (статистика неумолимо сообщает о 5 разводах на каждые 10 браков).

Традиции в разумной «дозировке» способствуют «привязке» малыша к дому. Это отнюдь не значит, что ребенок, когда вырастет, не сможет выставлять для себя приоритеты, памятуя о «субботнем чаепитии у мамы». Но в критичный переходный период семейные традиции помогут подростку не чувствовать враждебности к собственным родителям, научат не стесняться мамы и папы и совместного времяпрепровождения. А когда сын или дочь вырастут, они с теплотой будут вспоминать детские годы, уютный дом, семейные посиделки, выезды и праздники. Им будет, на что оглянуться и на что опереться при создании собственной семьи.

Екатерина Анискевич

http://www.familyroom.ru/family/31-sozdaem-semejjnye-tradicii.html

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